I have often, quite often wondered whosoever put this weird idea in men's head : हँसी तो फंसी
Means if a girl smiles at you that means she is hooked. 
So as women, we need to be careful with men. 
Many a times one lands into the trouble. 
Just because you smiled. 
You were talking to a boy/man, and you were smiling, giggling and next thing you encounter is the suggestive look or action from the 'hunk' ! 
Why? Why? 
If the nerve connections in his brain are distorted, is it my fault? 
How to know if the apparently friendly dude is not "cooking something spicy" in his mind, thinking you are ready to hop on the "wagon" any time? 
Shall I wear a constant fierce look or a sour expression? 
Shall I cease to treat him as a normal human being and just think of him as a predator ready to pounce upon me? 

Why can't two human beings talk to each other without preconceived notions? 
There is already so much misery in the world these days without our adding our own contribution to it. 

Where has decency gone? 

And another distortion of thoughts (in men) is the thinking that if a girl says No, it means Yes . 
My foot ! 
Do you think the girls are so dumb that they will utter the opposite of what they are thinking? 
Dumb is you, yourself who always views women in the stained mirror of your own dirty mind. For you, she is a thing to play with, as long as she is not your own wife and sister.. 

No I am not biased against men. 
In fact I have met and shared some precious time with  some wonderful men, who have been real gems and gave me so much happiness with their depth, wisdom and humanity. 

The goodness in each of us needs to be used for the better world... 
A kind gesture, a smile, wiping someone's tears, sharing somebody's pain.... 
It lightens the burden each of us carry within us..... 
I really wish this society to be something we all  should be proud of..