Tuesday, 12 January 2016

The art of communicating with others has always interested me. 

Apart from the normal usual conversation, there are two types which I find quite interesting :

Silent 
&
Loud 

Silent communication is most interesting and my favorite. 
One can indulge in it in between the verbal flow of words... 
Some call them "the pauses". 
But it is not a pause. 
The conversation is continuing without any external element. 

Such communication has depth. 
Its meaningful content is soothing to heart. 
No words are needed. 
Just a little look, gesture or smile... 

On the contrary, the most repulsive kinds are the loud types. 

Such is the negative impact of their cacophony that one loves to play deaf with them. 
Commonly found in women who think they are the wisest person God sent on this earth. 
There would be endless narrations of their views, experiences and these self proclaimed experts in worldly wisdom never miss an opportunity to "judge" people and give proclamations. 
Of course all of this is based upon their own myopic vision. 

In their ignorance they take silence of another person as a sure sign of "lack of knowledge". 
It doesn't occur to these nitwits that the other person may find them too repulsive to indulge in conversation. 
For me, I would rather talk to a wall than to waste my energy and time with these scheming loudspeakers ! 

One finds such specimens around us.... 
Relatives or someone in somebody's friends circle... Or some accidental encounter... 

I would hug a genuine friend. 
The heart automatically reaches out to that person. The sensitivity, humanity and affection act like magnetic force. 

But spare me the insensitive, selfish and  babbling loudspeakers. 

Softness. Does the word sound alien to them? 

Makes me wonder :) 

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